The Attraction Factor and Relationships

                     

Made for Each Other

Now before I start – I must tell you that a part from being young, free and beautiful:-)  I am also single at the time of writing this blog post. So I am writing from my past experience, current knowledge and future visions:-)

The Attraction Factor; the ability to attract and appreciate the life you truly deserve

My experience of attracting partners has always been on point.  In the past when I was insecure I attracted a partner who was insecure.  When I found it hard to trust men, I found a partner that I couldn’t trust.  When I found it hard to love myself first, I found a partner who didn’t love himself or anyone else.  Get the picture?

The first premise of Getting the Attraction Factor is understanding and experiencing that you can only attract to yourself that which you are being at any given moment.  So what ever we perceive in the world is an exact mirror for our inner world.  The outside world is a symbolic reflection of your inside world.

Lets take it up a notch – on a spiritual level

A soul mate is like a mirror, they reflect back to you the good, the bad and the ugly that resides with you.  To halves that face each other in order  to heal and become whole.  Soul mates exist to assist us with healing and becoming whole through the experiences faced in the relationship.  Unfortunately most people don’t learn -placing blame with the other person, walking from partner to partner without ever healing themselves first.

 

 A Twin Soul is the feminine or masculine side of your self that is already whole.  Together you can create a oneness, an energy of unity - facing the world in the same direction, with the same passion and vision.

 

Every time I have a relationship things seem to get better and better - that’s because I’m getting better and better.  I realise that by committing to my personal growth I am attracting partners that mirror my progress and who I am being. 

I now know when to let go and forgive -I use to hold on to partners hoping that things would change.   I now see the message in the madness.  I give thanks for the soul mates that have helped me grow no matter how painful. 

I use to focus on what I wanted in a partner – I now focus on me and who I need to be to attract the type of partner that I would like (my Twin Soul).  So I continue my journey assured that I will one day meet my divine partner divinely:-)

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